Oh this is a ray of light in the storm. I was so happy to read this.

Nightsky as usual your beautiful character is shining through all this... it shows in the way that you have stepped back your feelings of revenge against T, not asking for your things back... you are focusing on what you did gain from the 5 yrs (and it was a lot), and looking toward the future. Please believe me, through all the pain and confusion that you may feel now, your instincts are still sound and your healing is manifest and real.

Please let us know how it goes with you. You're loved!!!