Maybe you see something in her you desire? Maybe she has an inviting personality, and is attractive to you so you want a deeper releationship that you currently have with her. I don't think we can control what we desire. We can control our actions though. Maybe distance is what you need to let these feelinga cool off. I could imagine pursuing this releationship would harm your marriage.
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