Good advice Anne!

My T still likes me to know that the things that happened to me in the past were outside of my control. Sure, they have made me who I am today, some good and some bad. However, I am working on it. Like Anne said, you are the mastermind of your future. My T reminded me of this my last appointment. I admit for the like the first couple of hours, it was very empowering to know, that I am not stuck in a corner by other people. That, I make all the decesions myself. Then it scared the crap out of me too. If, I don't want to be the way that I am.. With a lot of hard work, I could change. That is a lot of freaking responsablity.