Yeah. There is that. I still think she is beautiful, but she isnt as sexy as when we first started dating. The weight can be lost though. We went on a diet recently and I lost 10my pounds and she lost 5. Sex was better when we were in better shape. Like a lot of other things in our releationship, it seams like I have to do most of the work. I think it would be nice to lay back and enjoy things for once. It's kind of a turn off for me when it is just me putting forth the effort.