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Originally Posted by adam_k
Yeah. There is that. I still think she is beautiful, but she isnt as sexy as when we first started dating. The weight can be lost though. We went on a diet recently and I lost 10my pounds and she lost 5. Sex was better when we were in better shape. Like a lot of other things in our releationship, it seams like I have to do most of the work. I think it would be nice to lay back and enjoy things for once. It's kind of a turn off for me when it is just me putting forth the effort.
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Even I weigh under 200 pounds. Being older than your wife,having had three children the last one weighing 9 lbs at birth so I was hugely pregnant with her. Having taken zyprexa, seroquel, and depakote that are notorious for weight gain. And I still weigh under 200 lbs. For a young woman who has not even given birth once it is completely unacceptable and unexcusable to weigh that much and sit on her tush all day long playing video games. If she weighs that much now, what will happen to her when she gets pregnant?
She needs to move her body. And get out of the house. If not paid work, then volunteering. And she needs to exercise. What she is doing with her time is completely unacceptable and she is courting disastr.