I second the long distance relationship question... And all the question about how you feel about her.

With the long distance, you already seem to have a possible end date in sight, possibly as soon as three years. Maybe you couldn't relocate back to her exact location, but maybe a little bit closer than where the new job is (how far away is it, anyways?)

I also agree that you say over and over how much she loves you, but rarely mention how you feel about her. You worry about losing someone that loves you so much... what about losing someone that you love so much? And if you do both love each other unconditionally, then I feel a long distance relationship is do-able...speaking as someone that did long distance for four years, with 6 months separated by the Atlantic Ocean, and currently in a commuter marriage (all with the same man). Plus I know there are other members here who have also survived LDR's and come out stronger on the other side.

At the very least, if you attempt a long distance relationship, you might figure out what you really want.