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Old Feb 18, 2013, 11:58 AM
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Originally Posted by hamster-bamster View Post
Even I weigh under 200 pounds. Being older than your wife,having had three children the last one weighing 9 lbs at birth so I was hugely pregnant with her. Having taken zyprexa, seroquel, and depakote that are notorious for weight gain. And I still weigh under 200 lbs. For a young woman who has not even given birth once it is completely unacceptable and unexcusable to weigh that much and sit on her tush all day long playing video games. If she weighs that much now, what will happen to her when she gets pregnant?

She needs to move her body. And get out of the house. If not paid work, then volunteering. And she needs to exercise. What she is doing with her time is completely unacceptable and she is courting disastr.
I fully agree. That much weight is unattractive and it causes a lot of health problems later. Im not a skinny guy, but you wouldnt look at me and say obese, maybe overweight, but she is obese. I dont have a good reason for it other than her lack of exercise and bad diet. I can only encourage her, i cant make her lose weight. I have enough on my plate as it is, I dont want to be her parent, telling her when to exercise, what to eat and to go out and do her part. She is an adult and has to make her own decisions.
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