I fully agree. That much weight is unattractive and it causes a lot of health problems later. Im not a skinny guy, but you wouldnt look at me and say obese, maybe overweight, but she is obese. I dont have a good reason for it other than her lack of exercise and bad diet. I can only encourage her, i cant make her lose weight. I have enough on my plate as it is, I dont want to be her parent, telling her when to exercise, what to eat and to go out and do her part. She is an adult and has to make her own decisions.