This is a tough question.

Have you and your boyfriend been to a couples therapist who knows bipolar? Maybe if he hears from a "doctor" about your issues he will better except them. I know people tend to believe authority better than the person who actually lives with the issues.

Plus, why would it be better there in FL? If you have good doctor, a good support system where you are.... it may not be a good idea to leave that.

It's a hard question to answer. I see why you're having trouble with it.