What do I do when my sexual urges arise? I don't want to masturbate, but sometimes I just can't help it. Plus I have sought advice from people and they all say to call someone while temptation is strongest, but suppose it happens in the middle of the night and I have nobody to turn to... everybody else is asleep and I don't want to wake anybody up that early; they have to work. What can I do? I am an introvert and a lot of times I find myself masturbating and I don't seem to have any place to go. I need a lot of support from people but I'm not getting it.