So today I tried to actually go outside and be more social. I'm still doing something wrong obviously...

I met one nice sales girl at the mall who helped with a product I needed, but then went off to talk to her co-worker. I wanted to ask her number and ask her to tea but her co-worker was like right there.

And then I met another nice one at another store I had to go to, but after a quick chat I realized she is about 20 or so.. and I'm 31. besides there were other customers in line and her "manager" was like lurking around. I felt weird chatting her up any further.

The supermarket... yeah.. more of the 19-20 type of girls working there.
cute and nice, but probably not a great idea to pursue romantically. Plus I have to shop there daily so isnt it weird to see them all the time and be known as the older guy who tried to hit on them?

I would love to hear from girls and guys on this forum.. maybe you see something in my daily routine or in my approach that is wayyy off? please advise I feel like whenever I get off the online dating sites and actually TRY to meet someone in real life, it doesnt really go anywhere.