I had that happen too. (it was a nine yr. love that finally we ended for the sanity of my mind-he could have gone on forever with crap.) I see what you meant. I am just happy (with this new friendship-relationship-less than 3 months into personally getting close to) that before there was hitting and threats, I found out the type of minds I was getting involved with. It is just the much his fault for picking to not disclose things to me directly and sneakly doing stuff behind my back to justify his high profile and my low estate I am still crushed!!!!!!!