I am locked in a power struggle with T at the moment. My usual strategy when faced with someone whose ego is as big as my own is to walk away. That what I did with Bad Facilitator.

But he was a prat. T is not a prat. I think. I hope. I would feel really bad if it turned out that I had formed an extreme attachment to a prat.

I guess I'm looking for evidence that T is not a prat.