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Originally Posted by LovelaceF
Hmm...sales people are generally paid to be nice to customers. I'm not sure I would take their niceness as a sign of dating compatibility.
I saw your other thread that mentioned you'd met someone online that didn't work out. I take it you're looking for places to meet girls in person.
Have you tried all of the usual things - exercise class, dog park, tennis club, church, chess club, political party group, book club, etc?
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To answer your suggestions...
EXCERCISE CLASS:
did the gym a few years ago. met tons of girls but always got the "I have a BF" line. or "actually, I'm kind of seeing someone. sorry". I go to Yoga but
no one really talks there and too many girls to really focus on one, much less what to say to one to make it happen if so many others are lurking around and can hear us talk. the studio is very small.
DOG PARK:
I don't have a dog
TENNIS CLUB:
I'm not athletic at all.
CHURCH:
I go to a catholic one. seems no room to "socialize" really, everyone just leaves after mass. The youth group they have is mostly the college-aged girls, and besides I could never stick to it or follow through with activities.
CHESS CLUB:
None around here.
POLITICAL PARTY:
I'm independent. Not sure which party to join.
BOOK CLUB
Never tried that but I love bookstores. I'm not sure how to approach that situation if there is someone I like there, and other people around can hear me trying to "pick her up". weird.