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Originally Posted by 1morerep
Hello Unmotivatable, I am so very sorry to hear that you are going through all this, i have been going through a divorce for the past 1&1/2 years aswell, and she just doesnt want to agree on anything. We have a 2yr old daughter together, and it is horrible not bein able to see her. I am in the army now, and in the middle of afghanistan, and she how now filed an adultry complaint against me. After a year and a half of us being seperated, I have moved on, but I am still not divorced due to her dragging her feet.
I am again deeply sorry for your situation, and I pray that you will be able to get this done and over with soon..
I know this may not have to much helpfull information, but i thought it might be nice to know that you are not alone. Dont Corner yourself with emotions by thinking it may be wrong to have them. It is ok to be hurt.
If you dont take anything from this comment, remember this;
"God will never give you more than you can handle"
You can come out of this a stronger person, with more knowladge of who you are and what you like.
God bless.
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Hello 1morerep, thank you for you're encouraging words!! I truly appreciate them! It has been really hard. A lot of ups and very low downs, but, by the grace and mercy from God, I have made it to this point. Not sure if I mentioned it or not, but, everyone I thought would be here for me have turned their back on me! I know it all happened for a reason! God has a grander plan for me, I lean totally on him to get me thru. I know what you said is true, that God will never put more on us than we can handle, he has carried me this far. I keep going to get to the end, when that is here, not sure what I will do.... Have no plans and don't want to make any! Just not sure of anything at that point.
I am sorry you are having to go thru what you are going thru!! That is worse than my situation! By far !! I feel very strongly about the way our soldiers are treated by the one left on the home front!! There are some really inconsiderate people in this world, and the wives and husbands that do their spouse the way you were done is pretty low in my book. It is very sad that children get dragged into these situations! You are not in a position that you should have to worry about things stateside!! I hope that yours gets settled very soon!! Thank you for serving our country!! I'm happy for you that you have moved on!! I sure wish I could. Was married for 20 yrs. don't know anything else! When do you come home?