Hi there bird nerd,
Just wanted to say I am glad that you are doing some research about bipolar.
There is a slew of information on the net as you have probably have found out.
Don't know if this is a new diagnosis for him?
I hope you have some family support and friends.
There are usually support groups associated with the local hospitals...call and you may find a real group to join along with for additional support.
Write more when you feel up to it.
I am 43 and female...hubby and i ahve been married 12 years ...he has seen me at my worst.
WE try to develop our strengths...and work as a team.
Have you gone to couples counseling or individual?
A neutral party can help you guys figure it out.
I wish there was some easy answer to this.
I am sorry there is not.
This is a life long diagnosis with hopefully remissions and stability along the way.
Getting the right medication is so important so this will take time.
keep writing, asking, journaling....
take care of your self as well.
bizi