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Old Feb 18, 2013, 10:36 PM
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Originally Posted by My kids are cool View Post
Regardless of whether the therapist knows best or not, as you know, I am of the opinion that it is absolutely the T's right to decide they are unwilling or unable to change the manner in which the T practices just because his or her method makes the client angry. If the T truly believes his or her way is in the best interest of the client, I do not believe the client gets to demand the therapist change. The client can stay and deal with the therapist's methods (and stop agonizing and raging against it) or the client can leave.


Or the T could just comply.. Right?

When I started of in T.. it was with a different T (saw him no more than 3 times before he for medical reasons). My chief complain was panic attacks.. So the first two appointments were about how to handle the panic, ways of dealing with the stress. I finally said, ummm.. these are good techiniques, but after years of dealing with all of this, I would love to get to the root of all of my issues. After thinking about it for awhile he said, ok. That is easy, I can shift the therapy we are doing. So, isn't that a way that the T thought he knew best, but client said I disagree and changed his course.
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