Hi gang!

It looks like I'm headed for another rupture with T.

In mid-October I had to get an uncooperative teenager to school in the first week of term with my wife out of the country.

I had a session with T for which I have still not forgiven her.

I say she failed in empathy. I have since told her, in detail, what kind of support I was looking for.

I need to hear from her that accepts that she failed me and that she will try to do better in future. I need to hear from her how she would have handled it differently.

I predict that she will tell me this is an ultimatum and dig her heels in. But what else can I do?