Hi Rainbow,
Insurance is so confusing! Half the really good therapists aren't on it because there are so many weird things going on. Blue cross is a good plan though, I mean there's a lot of choice in who you can see.
I would talk to her about this tomorrow. Hopefully she'll have an answer or maybe she can talk to the insurance company for you.
II think your husband is really mean sometimes. What you say in therapy isn't any of his business! Hope things work out tomorrow.