[QUOTE=CantExplain;2896620 I had a session with T for which I have still not forgiven her.[/QUOTE]

I get this. I'm still hanging on to some old old interactions with T that still haunt me. I can still see that the good she does for me far outweighs the disappointments I have felt. And with those disappointments I am trying to adopt the attitude of "If I cannot forgive others, how can I ever ask and receive forgiveness for myself?"

Sometimes it helps to just turn the mind off, not hang on like a pit bull to the 'prize' and allow deeper feelings to emerge. Who's right or wrong then becomes less relevant. Of course, I'm still trying to apply this to my own life.