I had an outer body experience when I was just a child...at the time I didn't even know what that was...I was having an operation to have my tonsils taken out...I rose up to the ceiling and could see the doctors operating on me and I was just lying there on the table....I remember floating out the door and looking down the hall for my mom...I saw her sitting out in a little room down the hall...felt better she was there so I floated back in the operating room and back down to my body...do people believe me when I tell them? I don't know! but I do feel it truly happened...anyway, try not to worry so much about fitting the pieces together...focus instead on what your friend and you decided...to come back for your son...It is so good that you did come back for that! Hope you find some therapy to help you get over this!! and please know that we at PC are glad to listen and respond!!!