People show their side that are desirable, no relationship is as perfect as they make it seem - or we believe it is. Yes life will be different with someone else, but you'll also have various problems with them as well, who knows? Employment is extremely, extreemmely stressful But it sounds like she is going overboard with the gaming

She could very well be addicted to gaming yes, may be using as a mean of coping - an unhealthy way of coping, to forget about stress... I used to do it, I got lost in video gaming for years. The hardest part was pulling away from the only thing I was so familiar with - i had an online bf, I had online friends, people to talk to who understand and go thru the same things, that's why nobody could change me. I mean there's nothing wrong with being online, it's just that... she is risking her health her life. It's tough, and I am hoping your wife doesn't fall deeper into her addiction or she will be in for a rude awakening