Don't worry about it for now just keep trying to work towards finding help for figuring out what it is. Give it time is the best thing to take away here. Let the process work before you start getting frustrated with lack of results or not knowing what it is that's the problem. Write out that list. I somehow didn't think to do that myself but I have been now thanks to your post.

Hopefully you can sort it out. Out of curiosity what's the song? I definitely can identify with your flags thing that even though it's technically not a problem, it is, and why can't people get it right right?