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Originally Posted by Torn Mind
To be honest, my whole being seems to think that this T has just pulled the rug - I have this sense that if I override my negative feelings about her and go ahead and keep trying to trust her, I'm repeating an extremely destructive past pattern - continuing to have faith in an adult/authority figure who actually destroyed me. It terrifies the hell out of me!
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this was
exactly how I felt when T and I had that big rupture - it nearly killed me to stick with it but somehow I managed it (one of the biggest factors, I know, was the PC community support!!) and boy am I glad I did. It may not work out the same for you but I hope so.
