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Rhapsody said:

Beside not letting our son go back over to his friends house for we found out that his mother does not have any guards or protection on their home computer and that they have been viewing porn while over there, hence were the latest nude pictures came from, we are still trying to come up with a consequence that fits the crime..... all that we can think of is to take his computer time and video games away from him for either one or two weeks and to have him do extra chores around the house during this time.
And - we are going to have his friend over to the house and set them both down and have a talk with them about all of this.
....... WHAT DO YOU ALL THINK ABOUT THIS? - is it fair or not enough?

(((((Rhapsody))))))

I agree with talking to your son, and I think at this point, limiting his computer and video game time is a good thing. Also, does he have another adult male role model he can discuss this with? I know that when I was a teenager, it helped to have someone besides a parent figure to discuss the big things with. I also remember thinking as a teenager that my parents were "mean", and just didn't want me to have any freedom, but now that I'm an adult, I'm grateful for a lot of the boundaries that were put on me. And think also of your older son, you obviously got through to him, you will probably get through to your younger son as well. Good luck to you!
Cracky