I am so sorry this woman is bringing you down. I understand how it can be very frustrating having to deal w/ her. If you guys are seperated and super close to the finilizing of the divorce, why in the world would she think that you owe her anything. It is no longer your place to take care of her. Is she crazy. When you do what she did, (she had an affair didn't she?) you forfit all your rights to anything from the relationship. She traded what she had for something else now she has to live w/ that.

Good for you. Don't help her w/ a car. You don't owe her anything. That is just my opinion. My own little rant. If she didn't have an affair and I have the wrong story, sorry. Now the world know how I feel about affairs and such.