So she arrives tomorrow, apparantly her landlord is the devil...

I feel like such a bad person, on one hand I'm dreading this woman coming to stay, even though the alternate is a homeless nephew.

On the other, Jordan's sperm donor shows up 3 yrs later high as a kite on lord knows what mix he smokes these days, asking to spend time with her??? wtf dude, you dont just get to be a dad when the mood hits!

I feel bad about the second because Jo asked me to decide for her and I was honest. Again me being honest with a 9y.o....

Told her he's very immature, doesn't fathom responsiblity or consistancy or putting someone else ahead of himself. I said he'd reel her in, make her feel special and loved, and then he'd get bored and spit her out, rinse repeat cycle...

I'm not even making it up. Its how he is with everything, work, love, relationships, its his nature...

I told her it would pain me to see her heartbroken again so young, that if its really up to me, she wait until she's older to establish a relationship with him when she can understand(?) and better handle the inevitable dissapointment that lies in his wake...

Oh and get this!
He says he stayed away from her for 3yrs because I dumped him, he couldn't handle seeing me!

Yes its my fault, not the fact that he is spineless!

and now I feel like a meanie. I dont want mandy here, and I dont want Jermain scarring my daughter with his drugs and thoughtlessness... but have I a right to be so mean

Gawd I just wanna bawl had a really stressful day at work, I'm sure its just that seeping out via personal issue....