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Old Feb 19, 2013, 02:12 PM
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Originally Posted by Torn Mind View Post
To be honest, my whole being seems to think that this T has just pulled the rug - I have this sense that if I override my negative feelings about her and go ahead and keep trying to trust her, I'm repeating an extremely destructive past pattern - continuing to have faith in an adult/authority figure who actually destroyed me. It terrifies the hell out of me!
Kind of an all or nothing approach, isn't it? Understandable. But -- this T must be totally incompetent/an enemy, or completely wonderful. Do you have to decide this immediately? Can you go to the session with the question in your mind of how competent she is, and continue to see if you can get more actual information about that?
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