Big Mama ... ty for your answer.
As regards great sex ... meg ryan aint the only one can do a great orgasm act

guess that answers that one LOL
and as for my unappealing habits ... yep, we all got 'em. the one some men have complain about is MY going about the house in old clothes (the kind you keep for gardening or d.i.y.) and no make up. some find it irritating i don't "scrub up" for them unless we're going out. my answer is (apart from the expense and effort to just sit in the house) i'm no longer a 20 yr old who cares about image, my living room is not a catwalk and i'm not living in a soap opera where i will be preened to within an inch of my life just for the hell of it. LOL. and if they still don't like it then either

or they can wear the damn make-up. LOL
p.s. yep there are some advantages to no teeth but why ruin my sadistic sense of fun