What are the odds of a random stranger having the same name as FDIL and texting me?

Inedible - they knew about the relationship but not the marriage? Isn't that type of thing posted in the newspaper?

I ask because this fall a co-worker discovered that she had two grandchildren ages 7 & 3. Ok, she has a son, I can almost understand that. But the ODD thing was that her son still lived with the mother of his children, they were STILL in a relationship. How do you not notice that your son has two children living with him? Babies require stuff. Lots of stuff. In seven years (age of the oldest) you never once noticed a toy, diaper bag, wipes anything to indicate that there was a child in the house? How bad does your relationship with your mother have to be that you would not tell her you had not one but TWO kids.