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Originally Posted by learning1
I believe therapists try to honor confidentiality but there are little slip ups and situations that I'm surprised to hear they are allowed to discuss clients with other therapists. When I've been a little concerned with it, I've asked my t's to tell me more about the rules, or asked if there were any exceptions, or something like that, in hopes that it reinforces them against slip ups. They might think I'm a little paranoid, but I think it's worth it. I figure the threat to their reputations, let alone their jobs, if they ever get caught slipping up is a pretty significant deterrent and they are pretty careful, but I still catch minor mistakes now and then.
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Thanks Learning, its better to ask even if we risk t's adding paranioa to our list
You are right about the risks though that Ts risk everything if they break the rules. I can totally understand if a client is at risk but otherwise no.
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Originally Posted by Willowleaf
I doubt you will be the only one training in this position. I have been in training for a different type of therapy and it was scary how many people fell apart at the start. We had no requirement to see a therapist, but it is the ones of us who have that are making a success of things. My t once said she often finds she does some of her best work when she is having her own problems. She said the important thing is to recognise your own problems and admit them to yourself and get help through therapy and supervision. When we were talking about how this could be she talked about maybe subconsciously you are giving out the message that it is ok to hurt you can get through it. Not sure how I feel about this but have acknowledged some truth in it as long as our problems never impose on the client. As others have said it is better to have a t that knows what some of these things feel like.
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Thanks Willowleaf. It is better to have a t has experienced things we have and who has struggled through life. It does make us better people and certainly more empathetic.
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Originally Posted by ECHOES
Can she do that? How would that work?
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I don't think she is allowed to do it but I don't trust her not to do it.
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Originally Posted by SallyBrown
I know a lot of this is a trust issue, Button, and I hope you can overcome that. But I just wanted to say that if I somehow found out that my T struggled with severe depression, I'd love him even more. First, because I'd know he struggles past his own issues to help others with theirs. Second, because I'd know he knows what it's like.
Something that happened a few months ago made me realize that my T didn't have a very good concept of what it was like to be really seriously suicidal. And that's ok, he doesn't have to know firsthand. But... I couldn't help but think that it would make such a difference if he did. So, for one, no one can prevent you from becoming a T because you struggle with depression. And second, depression doesn't make you any less worthy than anyone else. It's nothing to be ashamed of  . |
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That's a shame about your t, its also a shame that he wasn't able to feel what you felt, it sounds very painful and the support would have eased it a bit.
WEll I have had my share of problems but I am worried that it will be on file that I have suicidal tendencies and this could go against me. It's a catch twenty because I know how people feel and want to help others find the light again but it could also mean that I am not mentally able to do this job.
Btw, it would help to talk to someone who has been there and been suicidal rather than someone who has read about the feelings and symptoms in a book.
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Originally Posted by Eliza Jane
If you don't tell her, you won't be able to take full advantage of your therapy. Isn't the point of therapy for future therapists so that they can get a handle on their own issues so that they can better help others? It would be a little like cheating on your finals to go through therapy pretending to be okay when you are not.
I also really think the T will be okay with it. And hopefully helpful.
Good luck!
EJ
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Thhis is so true EJ, thank you for pointing it out, and I don't want to cheat my way through therapy, I want to do the hard work and reap the rewards.