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Originally Posted by adam_k
I'm going to see if I can borrow the 9K and give it to her. She has terrible credit. I don't think anyone would loan her money.
We don't have any shared finances really, except our taxes and a credit card I co-signed with so she can go to the VET for her cat, but it has a really low limit.
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Adam is this a good idea to give her 9K? will she put that towards her loan? intuitively it seems risky to think she will be responsible with that money. Not wanting to sound rude. You love your wife and want to make things better however given her history of not being responsible about things in general and putting it on you to take care of. It seems that you have faith and you want to trust her to do the right thing. I admire you for wanting to give her the money. It would be something to reflect on maybe.
take care