you may want his dr to talk to him about it. How long has he had it? if it is as bad as you describe I am not sure I would push too hard with him. My husband has copd and did quit. His dr told him it is progressive even if you quit. Is your husband on any kind of treatment? I am so sorry you are going thru this. It is difficult to think you might lose someone you love. I was married to an alcholic and he had chirosis of the liver and would not quit drinking. I know how you are feeling hon. it hurts. keep us posted hon.