I don't know if it is a good idea. My instincts are telling me to let her solve the problem. She agreed to the loan, and I didn't cosign anything of the loans with her, in addition the bulk of the loans were there before we were married.

My feelings tell me I love her and want to help her out. Shouldn't we make sacrifices for the ones we care about? Where is the limit? Does said limit have a dollar amount?