Lola, I lost the link to the free book when my computer shut down and have been too lazy to go back and look for it. I doubt he would read it anyway. I have given him books and he says he has read them and doesn't.

Granite, I totally get what you are saying. We were talking to the marriage counselor and he was talking about the need for feeling intimate before having sex. I was like, yeah, H needs that. He asked if I didn't need it. I was nope. Sex is for orgasms.