My T was as understanding as one can be. Her concern was helping me find better ways to cope and to get me to face the things that were bothering me.

I remember telling her of a time I was in the shower and I turned the water all the way hot. I was punishing myself because I couldn't feel happy. I remember when I told her about it she almost cried. I saw she was fighting back tears. I think T's get attached and the pain we do to ourselves gets to them. They should keep and emotional distance, but when someone is pouring thier heart out to you I think it can be difficult to not get attached. Thats my 2 cents.