My S/O left as he "couldn't live with my disability." Wish he'd left sooner I learned that one can live with a cluttered home. I also learned things like: the bed doesn't have to be made EVER and clean sheets are nice every so often; I don't have to empty the dishwasher just because the dishes are clean, I can use the clean dishes from there, and if I want, add the dirty and rewash all of them together. Things like that. I even have a POB so I don't have to worry about getting the mail out of the box everyday so no one steals any of it, or it becomes damp. I get the mail when I can.

I guess what I've learned is to "think out of the box." Just because you might have learned something one way, doesn't mean you have to do it that way forever. If I eat leftovers, or leave leftovers... I can put the fork in the refrigerator with it. (I do live alone )

I do what I have to, when I need to when I can...the rest has to wait. End of story.