Basically, I bought a vibrator around a month ago but I just haven't been in the mood to use it at all. I'm currently a virgin (not by choice) and have masturbated before (using my fingers) and thought it was about time I invested in a vibrator. I don't know why I am not "in the mood". I am now beginning to worry about if I were in a relationship and never felt in the mood? No one wants that in a partner. I think maybe this is all because I am depressed and anxious all the time but I don't see that changing anytime soon.