THINK TWICE about this relationship... specially if you love yourself. I've been married for almost 13 years and it doesn't get better. As they get older it gets worse, specially when they don't accept there is something wrong with them.
My husband is like the guy from Sleeping with the Enemy. If everything is not perfect, squared, lined up, etc. I find myself in living hell, and believe me... it wasn't nearly as bad at the beginning, and it gets worse every day. LOVE YOURSELF more than the other person, that is not being selfish, that is being smart... it is very hard to escape from a relationship like this one, specially as time goes by... I know I wish I had the courage.

gab