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Originally Posted by Syra
I know you don't know the whole truth, but you do know some truths. You KNOW you don't trust your dad. and you KNOW you have good reasons to not trust your dad. and you KNOW you feel something happened to you. and you KNOW (I htink) that your parents aren't supportive of helping you figure out what happened. and you KNOW that you deserve to be supported.
And you are entitled to make some decisions based on what you KNOW, even if you don't know everything.
I don't mean to make light of not knowing the whole truth. I would want to know. I always feel better when I understand things and all the pieces make sense. I imagine it's VERY hard to not know. I just want to suggest that not knowing everything doesn't mean you don't know anything, and doesn't mean you can't make some decisions to protect yourself and feel better.
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Thanks Syra, this makes sense. I do have some truths just not the big one I want. T has said something similar to this recently. I just really hope eventually I can come to peace with not knowing or that in due time the bigger pieces will start to come together.