No, I still don't see "fault" or "blame." It takes more than one item to create the situation you are in...and things happen.

Remember, nothing is forever. This includes living places you don't wish to live. Or living or working where it isn't what you desire. Sometimes we have to work around issues, rather than go in a straight line.

I would hope the two of you can find whatever is necessary for the best right now. Then you can work on changing it again in the future. Living with stress and worry makes everything feel impossible, imo.