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Originally Posted by PAYNE1
I don't think you're to blame. It's his need/obsession. I suppose some women would be okay with it, but I'm like you. I wouldn't feel comfortable about it.
I suggest you go to see a counselor. Maybe at some point he will go with you. But remember he is happy with the way things are.
I guess if you decide you can't accept things like they are--and he isn't willing to have regular sex with you--then you'll have to see about making other living arrangements.
I'm sad that this has become an issue. I suppose he was afraid to tell you before.  |
Hi. Thanks for making me feel a bit better. Ive tried so hard to understand but i cannot accept that he only wants sex if dressed up as it "gets him in the mood". He dosent want me otherwise :-( i would of left him years ago tbh if it wasnt for the house. You see its in both names but i actually live on a caravan park and my sons live at the house and trying go get a mortgage or rent somewhere half decent these days isnt easy. Im 47 this year and he is 53, i dont want to think, this is what i have to put up with for the rest of my life. No sex and knowing hes dressing up to get his pleasure in another room. He also trys to parade around dressed like it if its dark thinking people cant see but when there cars going past i dont know. I do no its making me ill and ive thought today its never going to change so i no what i have to do