I do not read text speak so I cannot comment on your exchanges, but can you just communicate with her in the mode that she finds satisfactory? If she removed you from G Talk and did not add you to FB, but still communicates with you via text or orkut or email, just be happy with that and do not ask her to add you to all other communication media. That you shared a lot of your life with her does not mean that she should reciprocate, right?