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Originally Posted by pbutton
Personally, when I post on the board, I want to hear other viewpoints. If I post that I think the sky is green, I'd much rather hear why people think the sky is blue. Having people tell me that it's my right to feel that the sky is green is NOT going to help me grow or change.
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YES! This is what I think too! I kind of thought the point of therapy is to grow and change, and point of this forum to support others in that growing and changing process. If someone comes on here complaining that their T is horrible because he or she won't support them in their belief that the sky is green, I feel we do them no favors by going, "oh, yeah! It totally makes sense that you think the sky is green! Your T is being unsupportive."
I know I personally have had people comment and I argue with them. But then at 3 in the morning, when I'm staring at the ceiling, sometimes I'm thinking, "damnit. She was right." LOL