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Old Feb 20, 2013, 03:16 PM
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YES! This is what I think too! I kind of thought the point of therapy is to grow and change, and point of this forum to support others in that growing and changing process. If someone comes on here complaining that their T is horrible because he or she won't support them in their belief that the sky is green, I feel we do them no favors by going, "oh, yeah! It totally makes sense that you think the sky is green! Your T is being unsupportive."

I know I personally have had people comment and I argue with them. But then at 3 in the morning, when I'm staring at the ceiling, sometimes I'm thinking, "damnit. She was right." LOL
My take on this is that one can not decide for someone else how to change and grow or what for them they want to change and grow. I can say how I see it, but I don't think I am going to get anywhere for them or me by insisting.
Thanks for this!
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