CE- good luck with the therapist.
There may be a middle ground where you could try taking a break.
I personally like quitting and if I change my mind, I go back. I don't feel bad about that. It gives me space to make sure it is my choice. Now I usually just take a week or two off to think about it and go back.
I have never quit the second one I see. And only taken one break from her.
The first one it happens every few weeks.

CE - IF the therapist "sweet talks" you - what does that get you? Is that proof of her love for you? I admit, the sweet talk would send me so far in the other direction, it is hard for me to imagine. I need the therapist to say okay and wait for me to decide with no pressure from them. Plus I think it is bound to fail. I think you will see the sweet talk as one thing but the therapist may see it as another. I don't think the therapist is never going to love you enough. I don't think she can as in I don't think it is possible. I hope it works out for you.