I don't think there is reincarnation, really, but can I call you Pearl?

Here's a true story...
A guy I was dating was in the service, came home on leave, went to my parents' house but I wasn't at home

so he went to the Janis Joplin concert that was going on that night (I wasn't there either)

He looked and looked for me - and not finding me anwhere, ....... he left.

Now that's true love!! So eventually I married the guy.