Adam I am so sorry. I wish there was something I could say, do, or give you. something anything. All I can give to you is my warm wishes, my prayers and my friendship. I know that is not really enough to help at the moment but it is enough to make you not alone and sometimes that is something.

Feel free to PM me and talk or vent of go off the deep end completely.

If your wife is anything like me, and it sounds like we have some similarities, she doesn't know what to say, she doesn't know what to do. She may even be in a little bit of shock like you are w/ the school loan situation. Her inability to show concern and compassion has nothing to do w/ you. Her love for you is most likely there she just is afraid to show it or is running from the feelings that love bring.

Like I said feel free to PM me. Just keep your head up and keep coming here and talking to us here at PC.