Thanks to ALL the replied to my post...... my husband and I have talked to our son and his friend is going to be coming over next weekend to spend a few nights and we will be taking this subject up with both of them at that time.
I am glad that I got to release my inner feelings with all of my friends here on PC, so now I can take care of the matter with what is going on in the present and not from my wounded past.
Thanks A Million......... ((( hugs )))
LoVe,
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