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Old Feb 20, 2013, 07:08 PM
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Originally Posted by CantExplain View Post
Me: Power cannot be "shared". At best, it can be divided.
T: But you can't share anything.
Me: Correct.
How did she steal it? Did you give it to her? I agree in not giving them power over you. You should take that back. I just don't think saying she has to give it back or do anything or you will leave. It is the ultimatum I see the hurdle with.
I don't think power over ME can or should or is a good idea to share.

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Originally Posted by sittingatwatersedge View Post
CE starting when yr child was 2 yrs old . didn't you teach her that sharing is compulsory?

Isn't marriage a society of sharing ?
I think sharing is kind of over-rated and fairly false when it comes to children - the kid has to share his toys, but adults are not expected to share their new ferrari or rolex or macbook air etc just because someone else covets it.

And that is why we each have a room all to ourselves. No sharing required in that space.